Being unmarry should be a very special time for
you; A time to study and learn; To think about what
you would like to do in the future; To develop
friendships; And to grow into the kind of person you
want to be as an adult.This is an exciting time for
you to discover the opposite sex buh without having
to deal with the complications of being involved in
sexual activity.
Dating can be a lot of fun without sex! Getting into
the sexual scene can short-circuit the growth you
need to become a mature adult!.
Don't be afraid you will lose him or her if you say
"NO" to sex.If your boyfriend wants you only for
your physical self, then they aren't worth it.
Ten Good Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex
When You Haven't Marry.
1. First of all, you won't ever have to worry about
getting pregnant, you will never experience the fear
and anxiety of having to tell your parents, "I'm
pregnant.." or "I got my girlfriend
pregnant".Pregnancy should be a happy
announcement after marriage.
2. You will never have to worry about getting
"STD"[Sexually Transmitted Disease].
3. You'll be free to grow emotionally,
psychologically, intellectualy and spiritually.
4. You will feel good about yourself, knowing that
you didn't give in to your partner pressure.
5. By not falling into "the sex-trap" , you're building
your psychological strength and self-esteem.
6. You will be setting an example for others, siblings,
friends and people around you, showing them that
sexual activity can be avoided.
7. You will be protecting your own reputation, no
lady wants to be known as "Loose" or "Olosho", no
guy wants the reputation of being a "Stud" or
"Maniaks".
8. You will known for certain that he or she cares
about you for who are and not just for your physical
person.
9. You will be free to channel your energies into
healthy activities such as Reading, Studies, Sports,
etc.
10. The last buh not least... You will learn not
confuse love with sex.Sex can be spontaneous and
brief (A One Night Stand).Love takes time to grow
and lasts forever.
NB
I created this piece to advice everyone(Both
Gender) not to think "Sex is Love" before marriage.A
guy can have sex with you today and dump you
tomorrow.And will always badmouth you infront of
his friends.
Say No To Sex Before Marriage..