Should i say it is not proper for a lady to woo a man?

Yes, it is not proper for a woman to be the first to say to a man that she has feelings for him.

I used to think it is African mentality until i made research and realized that is a global belief.

Saying "i love you" is a sign of commitment and assurance that someone will be with somebody till eternity.

Coming from a woman to a man is something most men will see as "forcing yourself on me" and thereby taking her for granted. They(the men) will be like she is cheap, she doesn't have dignity, she is loose and some funny and other dark comments.

You don't need to be bordered about the stigmatization, since you are also free to make your choice instead of the men forcing themselves to be your choice when you are their own choice freely.

Here are some things you can do to force the statement out of any man's mouth on your behalf.

But before you can try them out, make sure you have done your research about the man, make sure you are 1million percent certain he is as single as something i know but don't wanna mention.

* You must be bold and sure of yourself

This is the very first stage. You must be bold enough to face him, though you know your intentions but you must hide it so that he will not know where you are driving to at the early stage.

Don't doubt your look, be sure you are look good within yourself before you can face any man with your intentions, if not, you have failed from the first stage.

* Be ready to subdue your ego

This is also a vital point. Your ego can ruin you if you are not careful.

You need a man, not because men are not asking you out, but because you have seen someone with the qualities you desire of someone you will love to call your man, then you have to make yourself rule over your ego.

* Give him at most 60% attention


This is one of the steps many woman will love to get from any man they love. But don't be surprised that men are also emotionally attached to someone who gives them attention even when they don't deserve it.

Human feelings is very soft to tamper with, once you are consistent in giving him attention you are giving him reasons why he should try you out, you are giving him reasons to know that you are also available.

Try as best as you can to fill the empty space in his life. Get him talk about his work and before you know it he has finished telling you about his family and his dreams.

With little time he will get used to you and will also not want to go a minute without you.

At this stage you must be ready to disappoint him at some crucial instances. You must make him beg you for your attention so that he will not be developing the thought that you want to push yourself to him.

Social networks are very helpful this days. You can be the first to start the interaction.

You can accuse him of not checking on you even through social network so far it is possible huzzling and buzzling might not allow you to see let alone talk.

He will definitely beg you, after he might have begged, you can just tell him to promise you he will be checking on you even if it is through the social networks on a daily basis.

Before you know it, he is already in your house immediately after he leaves his office or what have you.

That will be his secondary job right from that day, gradually, you are gaining ground, but you must make your moves fast because someone else might be eyeing him or he himself eyeing someone else.

One thing about the above point is that even before you make any other move, you will observe that he will be developing strong interest in you himself.

* Body language

This is the most common style women adopt to force their love into men. Only a blind man will not know you are single and ready to mingle when you take the body language approach.

Speaking through your body as a woman speaks volume about your intentions and desires.

* Give him reasons to make him believe he is not making mistake with you

Should i say you should pretend during this period? I guess you should just be yourself. Once you have done all the above steps i think you should be free in his home, you should be able to help him with house chores.

Helping him out with house chores doesn't depict you are slave nor will it give him impression of enslaving you even when he eventually gives you the ring.

But, that will make any single man with his right senses to think less than once. He is not blind and neither is he a fool that will not understand that he needs to do the "needful".

One good thing is that as women are used to gossiping with their friends about their life, men also do same with their friends.

if he has good friends the work will be much more easier as they will be the ones that will tell him to act fast since time wasting can make you change your mind.

* Take little time before you say yes

He will eventually ask for your yes if you follow those steps but you must not say because you have laboured before he finally demands your yes then you should jump at it.

Even when you did not force him to love you, you must not say yes immediately let alone when you now do all the work.

Take small time before you will give him a yes, but it shouldn't be too long so that flies will not come and pollute the food that took your precious ego out of you.

On a normal day this are the things women do to their man before marriage but the difference is that the man has declared Interest before they will do all those for him.

But in this case the woman has to go extra miles for the man to be able to proclaim interest, thereby, showcasing the later first instead of the former.